May 30, 2017

Remember the incident about the un-rinsed dishes from my May 24 blog titled, You're being defensive again. No, I'm not? The unintentional hurts the couple - let's call them Brunhilde and Bruno - flung at each other seemingly out of their control....

May 24, 2017


There's a reason:

Defenses are called defenses because we use them to protect ourselves.

But from what?

Defenses are understandable if you're being physically or verbally attacked. But most defensiveness is just the go-to reaction in many everyday conversations b...

May 18, 2017

One of the most insightful comments I've heard from clients, especially female clients:

They are more afraid of intimacy than sex.

Women know that one can go through the motions of sex safely sealed off from one's body-mind system where the capacity for intimacy lies. Th...

May 18, 2017

Occasionally, it seems presumptuous for me to think I know enough about what the client is going through to be of any use, especially when I can still think back to when I was wondering who I was.

Yet I see client "aha moments" playing out before my eyes over and over a...

May 15, 2017

My parents have told me that as a kid I walked around with a very pensive look on my face. So they called me “Le Philosophe”, The Philosopher.

And so it was...and is. 

While I took all the philosophy courses I could during collage, it always just sounded like gobbledygoo...

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